Alca wrote:If you have to wait 16 weeks to abort your child you deserve to be sterilized. Anyone who would be stupid enough to wait that long doesn't deserve a child in the first place. You'd have to be completely retarded to think that there's nothing wrong with waiting that long.
Why? You can throw empty threats around like that all you want but you have no justification for it. At 16 weeks a foetus roughly resembles a seahorse, minus the sentient abilities. Actual foetal development aside, you have absolutely no idea what goes through a womans head during conception. 16 weeks is nothing in terms of a time frame when it comes to deciding whether you want to change your life radically and permanently. You'd have to be completely retarded to think that that's an easy decision.
Quite frankly I don't see an issue with a mother aborting a child without the bio-fathers consent.
I wonder what would happen if you ever had a child with someone (As unlikely as that may be.) I think you'd have a different opinion if your child was just erased without your consent. Who cares if it's the woman body? It takes two people to create a child. The father deserves some say in the matter.
There are many different circumstances in which a child can be conceived. A loving couple, planning to have a child, and the woman gets pregnant and goes and has an abortion behind baby-dads back. Yeah, there's a problem there. I know that.
A woman having casual sex, gets pregnant and gets an abortion without telling one-night-stand? Fine. Yes it takes 2 to tango but just because the man may want it does not mean the woman must. Again, it boils down to the misconception that a male has any right to tell a female what to do with her body. As I said previously the social implications of this scenario are complex and there are many variables, but going on the premise that we're talking about unplanned pregnancies, no, I don't think a woman has any obligation to sign her life away to a bloke that wants her to keep a baby that was conceived through a good Friday night fucking.
You base your views and thoughts on nill experience. You can only presume that what you think is what you will think when you're actually in that situation. I on the other hand have experienced pregnancy with a woman. The thoughts and problems that occur throughout pregnancy (for both her and I), as well as what the end result is like. I've heard both sides, met woman who have pursued different routes with their child-to-be. You are just another typical male who thinks he's allowed to impose on women because you think you know what it's like, or think that you can empathise. You give us all a bad name.
But that's probably enough. I really don't mean any disrespect to you Skype, but it's somewhat difficult to argue with someone who has more teeth than he does braincells.
Don't worry, I have leather skin. Besides, your bite is comparable to that of a 16 week old foetus.